“Marriage is a beautiful thing” and this is agreed by many people. However, there are many factors that contribute to the success and the actualizing of a successful marriage. These factors are what make a marriage an ideal marriage.
Also, The same way there are factors contributing to the success of a marriage, there are also factors contributing to the failure of a marriage and today, we would be addressing one of them.
One of the factors contributing to the failure of a marriage is Ingratitude between the couples.
Ingratitude destroys relationships, it erodes love and trust. A man’s oversight at his honor ceremony illustrates this. His name is Mr Steve. Immediately after his honor ceremony, He hurriedly went to thank some two individuals for his success but he overlooked his wife’s crucial contributions, her unwavering support, her financial sacrifices and her encouragement, he overlooked them all.
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One important things he didn’t know was that Publicly acknowledging others, especially your spouse strengthens the existing bonds and uplifts spirits.
At least, Express gratitude sincerely and often with simple words like:
- “Thank you for being my rock.”
- “Your support means everything.
- “I appreciate your sacrifices.”
This disease called Ingratitude stems from pride, ego, self-image or unawareness. You must recognize others’ efforts to foster deeper connections.
Gratitude enriches marriages, cultivating intimacy, trust and mutual appreciation. Value harmony and express genuine thanks.
Social media’s toxic influence can even sow discord between couples so, you must learn to practice mindful self-awareness and discernment.
Also, learn to;
- Cultivating Gratitude.
- Express heartfelt gratitude regularly.
- Value peaceful moments; constant conflict is harmful.
- Channel energy into uplifting pursuits.
Also, nurture your love through:
- Open communication
- Active listening
- Empathy
In conclusion, Love flourishes in supportive environments but ingratitude and toxicity destroys it.
Next time, we would look at another crucial factor that leads to success in marriage.
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